All parents would agree that you can't force learning on your children. Creating a "house rule" that requires your student to love math or science or be passionate about his or her homework simply isn't realistic or reasonable. So, how do you instill in your child an enthusiasm for learning? Is it even possible to do so? While there certainly is no single fool proof method of parenting that will guarantee a child's success in school, there are several ways for parents to create circumstances for their children that promote optimum learning-both at home and in the classroom. Here are a few pointers to help your child develop a commitment to lifelong learning.
Help your child learn more about subjects he or she likes.
If your child shows interest in a certain subject at school, encourage him or her by getting your child involved in a related activity. Remember to continue to pursue your own pastimes as well to show your child that you too are excited about learning.
Guide your child toward as many "ah hah!" moments as possible.
It feels good to "get" something on your own, no matter what age you are. Like good teachers, coaches and mentors, parents can also empower their children to explore their minds and discover answers. Rather than reading a science concept to your child and hoping he or she will comprehend it, ask your child to try his or her best to explain the concept to you. Rather than tell your child the right answer to a math problem so that he or she will not make a mistake, let your child attempt the problem first, even if it means getting it wrong. Then, allow reflection time so that he or she can learn from their mistake. Be sure to offer positive encouragement every step of the way. It is important for children to learn independence and problem solving skills, especially as they get closer to high school and take more challenging classes.
Try not to treat homework as a means to an end.
For busy families, nightly homework time may feel like one more task or obligation that both parents and children don't have much time for. However, remember that in order to do well in school, it is imperative that your child complete and understand his or her homework. Help create a supportive, patient environment for your child that fosters curiosity and exploration. The process of learning assigned homework is just as important, if not more, than the finished product.
Expose your child to a wide variety of experiences.
It doesn't take significant scientific research to know that every child is drawn to different activities and different learning styles. Provide your child the opportunity to check out lots of things, including music, sports, theater, museums, art, dance, science, cultural activities, cooking and anything else you can think of. One child may be greatly impacted by attending a play while another child may be fascinated with a science exhibit at the local museum.
There is so much more to school and learning than textbooks and grades. A child that feels supported and engaged will also be more motivated to learn and in turn, more motivated to succeed in school.
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